Experiment. Adjust. Improve. Keys for a better retirement.
How do you picture your retirement? No
work. Loads of free time. Sitting
on a beach sipping a cool drink. Flying all over the world visiting interesting
places. Or something else less exciting.
Those
all sound great (and most of the time they are), but most retirees complain
about every single one of them at one point or another over the years.
No matter
what you think your retirement will be, it will change over time. Your interest
will change, you won’t have the energy or money to travel all the time, your
health will change, or you just get bored. Trust me, doing nothing and relaxing
gets old quick.
Experiment. Adjust. Improve.
Those
three words are key to creating your ideal life and
retirement.
No matter
what you are doing, you are always experimenting with your lifestyle. You keep
the good things, throw out what you don’t like and make adjustments that
improves your ideal life and retirement.
Do I really want this, or do I just think I want it?
Joe Hearn says in a blog post on Intentional Retirement, another
way to ask that might be “Do I want this in theory or in practice?” Ask
it of every major item on your retirement “To-do” list. The only real way
to answer that question is to experiment with your plans. In other words,
you actually start doing things. Shocking concept! You need to take
all the things you have planned for “Someday” and start
experimenting with them today.
This is not a trivial exercise. It turns out that we’re
pretty bad at predicting the things that will make us happy. Scientists
like Dan Gilbert at Harvard have done research that proves this. So,
experimenting and doing the things on your list is a critical step to determine
whether you’re on point or you need to go back to the drawing board.
Conclusion
Our retirement plans constantly change. And don’t feel bad if you
don’t have things totally figured out. None of us do. That’s what
experiments are for.
Here is a quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson that sums up experimenting
with life.
“Do not be too timid and
squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more
experiments you make, the better. What if they are a little course, and you may
get your coat soiled or torn? What if you do fail, and get fairly rolled in the
dirt once or twice? Up again, you shall never be so afraid of a tumble.”

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